When the Helper Needs Holding: A Therapist’s Story of the Holiday Season
The holiday season arrives with twinkling lights and packed schedules, and for many therapists—especially those who spend their days holding space for others—it can be a complicated time. You’re tending to clients’ grief, anxiety, and family stress while trying to honor your own capacity, and sometimes those two worlds collide. The pressure to be both grounded and giving can feel heavier in December, when everyone else seems consumed with celebration. This season invites you to pause, breathe, and remember that you aren’t just a therapist—you’re a human who deserves rest, connection, and gentleness, too.
Falling Into Balance: How Therapists Can Navigate the Emotional Shifts of October
October arrives quietly, bringing cooler air, shorter days, and a subtle invitation to reflection. For therapists, this month often stirs both opportunity and challenge. Summer’s pace slows, clients return ready to dive into deeper work, and the emotional weight of the year can surface in unexpected ways. This season reminds us that holding space for others requires holding space for ourselves, too. October is a time to pause, notice our own emotional rhythms, strengthen boundaries, and reconnect with what sustains us. By honoring our own needs, we create resilience and the capacity to show up fully—for both ourselves and our clients.